It's been said that the ultimate fantasy of a man is to be with two women at the same time. I can't seem to imagine being calm while watching my bf do things to someone else while i watch. There isn't enough alcohol. What do you think are the consequences to a couple who invites someone else to have sex with them? It's one thing to be kinky but what about after the 'joyous occasion'?
Creative8 I think if you bring that fantasy into the realationship you're asking for trouble. Personally the thought of having two women on either side of my chest, two tongues instead of one, four hands instead of two is a pretty amazing experience as I’ve had before. Consequences? Your g/f enjoying the other side if the experience and wanting it more (alone) who can be discrete is the next question. I’m sure you don’t want a flare up and your panties exposed like "Bill" and last the constant replaying in your head of her enjoying it more with her than you. Lol that’s why i did mines outside the relation it was Great don’t regret it one bit.
If you are not the type of person to be adventureous in such situation then dont let him force you into it . If it was me i would prefer that you be the person to initiate such a thing he should be happy with what you choose if he is'nt then u should think abot your relationship.
it really not a good idea to do it wid your girlfriend there cus women are so funny it would be good in the start but when you get in the full swing of things they don't want to see you Sleeping with another girl its too hard for a lot of them
Dear Little Lady From your question, it is obvious that a ménage à trois is something that you are not comfortable with. Usually this activity falls within the domain of those with rather liberal views on sex and relationships. For persons such as this, their level of “open mindedness” tends to make such an activity a non-issue such that it should less likely hold any ramifications for the future. If this is something that your boyfriend would like you to engage in with him and others, you should not do it unless you are completely comfortable. Don't think for a moment that this will make him love you, for this is not about love, but rather sex, purely about sex, and his sexual gratification. In essence you need to be compatible with your partner, and if this is his sexual fantasy or even a fetish, then you have to ask your self some serious questions as to whether this is the type of person you want to be with. It is of paramount importance that you and your boyfriend can communicate in such an open manner that if you find a request offensive that you can decline without feeling pressured, but again, is this the type of person you want to be in a relationship?
Unless you are both very open-minded, you might find your relationship in jeopardy. I believe men are still antiquated - don't shoot the messenger - one guy told me he would live out his fantasies with outside women rather than his wife and he would have serious reservations if he wife had to express a desire to sleep with 2 men or any freaky desires. Ok for them not cool for the woman.Ladies must remember we run on emotion men operate from the ..........(guess)
Thanks for your comments everyone. I agree with the comment that if you are going to do it it should be done outside of the relationship. I have my own views about the 'liberal' type of relationship and how those go. Also it is really just sex when it comes to fulfilling sexual fantasies not a measure of love. I don't feel pressured I'm just aware of desires.
I suggest you try it.I think you will realize that women make better lovers.You will end the relationship with your boyfriend and then find true happiness.Have you ever seen "One two Many"? Watch that with your boyfriend.He will change his mind after.
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It's been said that the ultimate fantasy of a man is to be with two women at the same time. I can't seem to imagine being calm while watching my bf do things to someone else while i watch. There isn't enough alcohol. What do you think are the consequences to a couple who invites someone else to have sex with them? It's one thing to be kinky but what about after the 'joyous occasion'?
Creative8
I think if you bring that fantasy into the realationship you're asking for trouble. Personally the thought of having two women on either side of my chest, two tongues instead of one, four hands instead of two is a pretty amazing experience as I’ve had before. Consequences? Your g/f enjoying the other side if the experience and wanting it more (alone) who can be discrete is the next question. I’m sure you don’t want a flare up and your panties exposed like "Bill" and last the constant replaying in your head of her enjoying it more with her than you. Lol that’s why i did mines outside the relation it was Great don’t regret it one bit.
If you are not the type of person to be adventureous in such situation then dont let him force you into it . If it was me i would prefer that you be the person to initiate such a thing he should be happy with what you choose if he is'nt then u should think abot your relationship.
it really not a good idea to do it wid your girlfriend there cus women are so funny it would be good in the start but when you get in the full swing of things they don't want to see you Sleeping with another girl its too hard for a lot of them
but wid friends its wonder full
Dear Little Lady
From your question, it is obvious that a ménage à trois is something that you are not comfortable with. Usually this activity falls within the domain of those with rather liberal views on sex and relationships. For persons such as this, their level of “open mindedness” tends to make such an activity a non-issue such that it should less likely hold any ramifications for the future.
If this is something that your boyfriend would like you to engage in with him and others, you should not do it unless you are completely comfortable. Don't think for a moment that this will make him love you, for this is not about love, but rather sex, purely about sex, and his sexual gratification.
In essence you need to be compatible with your partner, and if this is his sexual fantasy or even a fetish, then you have to ask your self some serious questions as to whether this is the type of person you want to be with.
It is of paramount importance that you and your boyfriend can communicate in such an open manner that if you find a request offensive that you can decline without feeling pressured, but again, is this the type of person you want to be in a relationship?
Unless you are both very open-minded, you might find your relationship in jeopardy. I believe men are still antiquated - don't shoot the messenger - one guy told me he would live out his fantasies with outside women rather than his wife and he would have serious reservations if he wife had to express a desire to sleep with 2 men or any freaky desires. Ok for them not cool for the woman.Ladies must remember we run on emotion men operate from the ..........(guess)
Thanks for your comments everyone. I agree with the comment that if you are going to do it it should be done outside of the relationship. I have my own views about the 'liberal' type of relationship and how those go. Also it is really just sex when it comes to fulfilling sexual fantasies not a measure of love. I don't feel pressured I'm just aware of desires.
I suggest you try it.I think you will realize that women make better lovers.You will end the relationship with your boyfriend and then find true happiness.Have you ever seen "One two Many"? Watch that with your boyfriend.He will change his mind after.
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